Balanced Creation - State of Happy Life!!

Here is the bottom line: Your external reality is directly proportional to internal reality. Now, What do I mean by that? The Whole Universe is responding to how you are Vibrating/Feeling from inside in this present moment. If your feeling is  rooted in Joy/Love your external reality will become the same. By external reality I mean your friends & Relationships, career, joy etc. If you are rooted in fear, Struggle your external reality will become the same. If you want to know how you are Vibrating basically you can know right away. Just below where your Rib cage ends & where your Belly starts is your emotional center. This emotional center will give you a Reality check how you are feeling in the present moment. Are you feeling spacey, fearful, angry, Jealous, reckless or Are you feeling Happy, Joyful, Peaceful & rooted in love, this emotional center will tell you that. In other words the more you are connected with the life inside you the more you are rooted in

Familiar with below experiences:  Your mind keeps on making so much noise/chatter that you do not seem to get a way out of it..Even when you do not want it to make noise it still makes so much noise that you have to pop in a pill or that cigarette or that drink to make it silent..& you do not even understand why??? You keep on saying positive affirmations like I am Bold,I am confident,I will be good to people but still keep on attracting negative realities & negative people around yo u & again you do not even understand why. When you get something new you become too excited (high) & when that something leaves you get too low(depressed)..or in other words Monday blues & Friday highs.. You think that when you will get that thing that relationship that house that car then your life will be at the best..but when you even get it it still the same. moreover it does not make much difference whether that thing is still there or not there in your life.. Well you

Have you ever seen a heart transplant happening in real life or maybe in a video? (Check it out here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HYWmYJNg5Jw&t=115s ) In a heart transplant the receiver’s heart is stopped by putting in two electrodes to stop it beating, so that the doctors can remove it. Before this step the doctors bypass the hearts arteries to a machine where the pumping part is taken care by the machine itself. Moreover the lungs are also bypassed & the machine takes over for the pumping of air in human body. Now just picture this: A patient is lying down on the operation theater with his heart & lungs bypassed where the beating & breathing are taken over by the machine. In this picture the patient is still alive. If it was because of heart he was alive or lungs for that matter he would have been dead by now since the beating process has been taken over by the machine (A non living thing). But he is still alive. So you can say that heart

Apparently I was asked this question recently how do I balance everything whatever it is work- life balance, financial balance, health, well being etc.? You have always heard about & tried to have work-life balance but never succeeded & then you get lost in daily duties of life & the word (work-life balance goes on the side). Ever thought why did it not succeed? The answer is below: Balance does not come through your brain/mind or in other words it’s not part of the brain. Balance is a state of being inside you. If you are imbalanced inside it will show everywhere. Job, health, finances, Career, Relationship etc. Seems strange continue reading: Remember the last time when you working on a project that you loved passionately & you forgot to keep the track of time. Or remember the last time you were playing or watching the game & you forgot again the time. Why did this happen?   It happened because your brain was trying to derive pleasure of the pr

I was asked this question couple of nights ago..Ankur, Why I am not motivated to do Self Improvement things like others are doing? I asked him, Do you drink, he said yes. I said do you smoke.? He said yes. I said, dear you are already miserable but not miserable enough to do something about it.  you are in pain but not enough pain that you have to do some self improvement. And the pain (Psychological) is increasing every day bit by bit, its not going anywhere. One day, the things you are doing right now will increase your pain (Psychological) to a breaking point that you will realize whatever you have been doing is not working. That day you will move onto self improvement things. To give you an example you cannot drink liquor to the dying day of your life. At some point of time your body will say no, either your liver will go bad or something on those lines will happen. That day all the pain you have been suppressing will come up because now you cannot have the ext

When you were young your mother told you: Son, Don't put your hand in fire you will burn your hand. Assuming that she has always spoken truth to you, you  believed her. But after a while you got curious. You wanted to know what actually it feels like to burn. So one day you went into the kitchen, put your hand in the fire & burnt it. Now this became your experience & you decided that never in your life you will put your hand in fire again. Your mother telling you was ‘believing’ & you actually burnt yourself was knowing (experiencing). Similarly you listening to someone about Permanent love, joy, happiness which is good , but it’s just a belief for you because you have not experienced it, similar to your mother telling you that you will burn your hand. You experience so much ups & downs in your life that you think this is only what life is meant for & you fail to experience what the permanent Joy, Happiness is & you cling onto a person or

What is Stress (in home, office) in scientific terms?  Why did you get it in first place & How do you come out of it? If you see the definition of stress it is a force created in opposite directions on anything. Take arubber band & pull it on opposite sides. The rubber band will get under stress. Release the force & the rubber band reaches its stable state (non stressed state). Similarly there are two forces created inside you too. One from the life which speaks through your heart called life-force which is actually what you want every time. That car that house that relationship where you say: Aha this is what I want. This force from your heart is always positive in nature and always works for your well being. There is another force inside you which comes through brain/mind. This force is created by your external conditioning created by people & surroundings around you, both positive and negative. It’s mostly the negative that affects you which is not in sync

What Women really want from men – Cracking the code Well this question has bothered many men including me & like most men I was clueless too for about 32 years of my life on this planet. But finally with so much messing up & seeking answers I was finally able to understand (Still there is a lot of learning to do) whats going on. The answers doesn't lie on the surface but lies in the fundamentals of energy through which man & women were created which I will explain it to you in below post. For a man & like most men the primary goal in the life is their “purpose in life”. If your purpose whatever that might be that you do to earn a living is going great you will be happy even if your intimacy with your girl friend or wife is going sideways. For a women if their intimacy / love is flowing great with their partner they will be happy throughout the day. Their day will be filled with color. This is because “Flow of Love” is the primary goal of

De-linking Desire from Happiness – A Desire is not a pre-requisite  for Happiness You happiness is not dependent on your job, your relationship (boyfriend/girlfriend/Wife), the things you own etc. A job, a person or a thing, one can inspire you more than the other but the job/person or thing  itself will never make you happy. Every job will become monotonous, every relationship  becomes boring & complacent, every thing loses its value (they become ordinary)   after a while when the excitement comes down. See in retrospect of your life the things you  really wanted are just ordinary now. That's the truth of nature. If you are not in a state of happiness when you are NOT DOING ANYTHING where   you are sitting alone by yourself, you will never achieve the state of happiness when  you get the job, get the relationship or get that thing like a car, house phone or whatever  you wanted . You will be excited for sometime which will naturally come down but will no