Posts

Understanding About Life

Some things I would like to share regarding understanding about life I have gained over period of years:

Life is just energy in motion. The energy is present everywhere in solid matter & empty space to the farthest ends of Universe. (Science didn't have understanding about it so they termed it as dark energy now) & We all (Planets, stars, galaxies, plants, animals, ant, elephant, Human Beings) are all part or subset of this energy. The energy is just trying to experience the physicality so that's why you see all the creations( physical things around you) like planets stars etc. Its non judgemental & does not judge you for right or wrong,  This energy or what you call Life is purely positive in nature, full of Joy, Happiness & peacefulness. It always looks after you & always do good for you even when you are against it.Life has an agenda to bring you onto this planet. There is some purpose behind you birth here which will unfold eventually. Thin…

Why do you get Sick (flu/fever etc.)?

Take a look around you. Not everyone is getting sick, some people are maintaining finicky hygiene (Chlorox, wipes etc etc) but still they get sick. And some who don’t even care about it seems to go through well through the season. What’s going on?
You do not get sick because someone is carrying germs around you or because you are touching someone (Anyways, there are thousands of bacteria/viruses in you & around you at any point of time).
You get sick when your body’s immunity is compromised. The immunity of the Body is directly related to the digestive fire of your body.
When you don’t eat properly your digestive fire (Agni) gets affected leading to malabsorption of food in body thus creating toxins which creates diseases. It all depends on following factors:
1.What you eat (eating food depending on the season & body type). The digestive fire is weakest when the season changes. So if you can maintain the strength of agni in your body at the time when season changes you won’t get …

The Deepest Pleasure you are yearning for!!

You had everything a house, car, phone, marriage, wife, children, relationships, girlfriends, boyfriends, drinks, smoke, booze, drugs, nature and yet it did not fulfill you, not for long. What is this inadequacy? What is it that will make you completely fulfilled, happy & secure?
What is it that you are yearning to merge into. You had everything or are in process of getting everything and yet there is still something lacking. What is it that you are longing for? 
It’s the union with the Consciousness. To be precise it’s the union between you and the Consciousness. Consciousness that is ever present, all pervading, totally loving, and un-perturbing. Booze, drinks, drugs, sex is all toned down version of this merging. When you don’t get connected to it (inside your body), it creates tension and its own need to get released in the form of external action to get connected to it and the cycle keeps on continuing.

With Love
Ankur

Happiness – A flower to Blossom

Happiness is like a flower. It will only blossom when required amount of balance is there between your energies which shows through your thoughts & emotions. Just as to grow a flower all that is required is right amount of sunlight, soil, water air & space, similarly when you have right balance in you between your energies, the happiness is bound to blossom and the path to create that balance is through Yoga & Meditation. Both of them are required. Doing one without the other is like driving a car without steering wheel. You will reach somewhere but you will never reach your destination (which is being totally blissful & happy by yourself).

Just as growing a flower is the consequence or end result of giving the right conditions to the seed of the flower. Similarly, Happiness is the consequence or end result of creating right conditions in your body through yoga & meditation. If you give it, your body has no choice but to unfold happiness within you.
With Love Ankur

Quote

Image

Are you Forcing Happiness or Are you Happy, Naturally?

Lets say I asked you to grow a flower (Lets take an example of  Rose). How will you do it. What will you do?

You will take the Rose Seed, bury it in the soil where there is right amount of sunlight air & space.You will water it everyday & make sure that it gets right amount of it. Eventually & slowly the stem will shoot from the ground & start rising. Then the leafs will come out & then the flower bud. After a while the flower bud pops up & eventually the Rose will start to grow & unfold.

Now in this whole process what exactly did you do to grow the flower. You did not force it to come out of stem beforehand, you could not. Even if you were in a hurry to grow it, the nature took its own time to grow it . All you had to do was to provide  soil, sunlight, air, space & water. The flower was the consequence or the end result of the process that you did to grow it.

Similarly Being Joyful, Happy & Peaceful is the consequence or end result of …

Are you Forcing Happiness or is it Natural Happiness

Lets say I asked you to grow a flower (Lets take an example of  Rose). How will you do it. What will you do?

You will take the Rose Seed, bury it in the soil where there is right amount of sunlight air & space.You will water it everyday & make sure that it gets right amount of it. Eventually & slowly the stem will shoot from the ground & start rising. Then the leafs will come out & then the flower bud. After a while the flower bud pops up & eventually the Rose will start to grow & unfold.

Now in this whole process what exactly did you do to grow the flower. You did not force it to come out of stem beforehand, you could not. Even if you were in a hurry to grow it, the nature took its own time to grow it . All you had to do was to provide  soil, sunlight, air, space & water. The flower was the consequence or the end result of the process that you did to grow it.

Similarly Being Joyful, Happy & Peaceful is the consequence or end result of having balan…

Quote

Image

Quote

Image

Life-Energy or Consciousness - Ankur

Certainly, you were not born with a manual that you will operate in certain way

But what is it that makes your life different from others. Take a case of your brother or sister or may be a twin brothers or twin sisters.

Why is it that even twin brothers do not have the exactly the same life? Although they look identical their life is totally different.

What is it that makes one life different from other?

For Example: There are 10 cars in front of me & my friend. Out of those I will like a different set of cars and my friend will like a different set of cars. Certainly, we both are not liking all the 10 cars.

If both of us are liking all the cars then we could have safely said that nothing is differentiating between us. But that's not the case. I like certain set of cars & my friend likes another set of cars out of those 10.

Clearly, there is something that is resonating inside my body with those cars which is different from my friend's choice. It’s like there is something in…

Body is able to heal the wound but is not able to heal the Brain's Negativity, Why??

What is Energy?

Energy is a force behind anything that helps the object to move or perform some task.

Take a moment and look around you at this very moment..Plants are growing,so there is energy behind or in them. Water is raging in oceans,again energy in it or behind it.Wind is blowing,earth is moving.In fact the black space you see has been deduced by western scientists that its not vacuum It's dark energy. Basically the space above appears black that's why its termed as dark energy otherwise there is nothing dark about it.That energy is positive in nature because its growing everything. So in nutshell everything around you has energy, Ultimately Life is the energy itself.

Now lets consider the human body and particularly just one cell of your body. That one cell lets say the Blood cell (RBC) is moving around  in your body. Since its moving around it has energy in it or behind it. 
Now how many cells are there in body.There are billions of them .So if one cell has energy obviou…

Quote

Image

You attract what you are!! - Ankur

Image
Here is the bottom line: Your external reality is directly proportional to internal reality.
Now, What do I mean by that?

The Whole Universe is responding to how you are Vibrating/Feeling from inside in this present moment. If your feeling is  rooted in Joy/Love your external reality will become the same. By external reality I mean your friends & Relationships, career, joy etc. If you are rooted in fear, Struggle your external reality will become the same.

If you want to know how you are Vibrating basically you can know right away. Just below where your Rib cage ends & where your Belly starts is your emotional center. This emotional center will give you a Reality check how you are feeling in the present moment. Are you feeling spacey, fearful, angry, Jealous, reckless or Are you feeling Happy, Joyful, Peaceful & rooted in love, this emotional center will tell you that.



In other words the more you are connected with the life inside you the more you are rooted in Love,Peace,Joy …

Evolution of Experiences

Familiar with below experiences: Your mind keeps on making so much noise/chatter that you do not seem to get a way out of it..Even when you do not want it to make noise it still makes so much noise that you have to pop in a pill or that cigarette or that drink to make it silent..& you do not even understand why???You keep on saying positive affirmations like I am Bold,I am confident,I will be good to people but still keep on attracting negative realities & negative people around you & again you do not even understand why.When you get something new you become too excited (high) & when that something leaves you get too low(depressed)..or in other words Monday blues & Friday highs..You think that when you will get that thing that relationship that house that car then your life will be at the best..but when you even get it it still the same. moreover it does not make much difference whether that thing is still there or not there in your life..Well you can get free fro…

What keeps us Alive? Is it your Heart, Brain, Blood or something else altogether!!

Have you ever seen a heart transplant happening in real life or maybe in a video?
(Check it out here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HYWmYJNg5Jw&t=115s )
In a heart transplant the receiver’s heart is stopped by putting in two electrodes to stop it beating, so that the doctors can remove it. Before this step the doctors bypass the hearts arteries to a machine where the pumping part is taken care by the machine itself. Moreover the lungs are also bypassed & the machine takes over for the pumping of air in human body.

Now just picture this: A patient is lying down on the operation theater with his heart & lungs bypassed where the beating & breathing are taken over by the machine. In this picture the patient is still alive. If it was because of heart he was alive or lungs for that matter he would have been dead by now since the beating process has been taken over by the machine (A non living thing). But he is still alive.

So you can say that heart is just a…

Balance - How do you really achieve it?

Apparently I was asked this question recently how do I balance everything whatever it is work- life balance, financial balance, health, well being etc.? You have always heard about & tried to have work-life balance but never succeeded & then you get lost in daily duties of life & the word (work-life balance goes on the side). Ever thought why did it not succeed? The answer is below:
Balance does not come through your brain/mind or in other words it’s not part of the brain. Balance is a state of being inside you. If you are imbalanced inside it will show everywhere. Job, health, finances, Career, Relationship etc. Seems strange continue reading: Remember the last time when you working on a project that you loved passionately & you forgot to keep the track of time. Or remember the last time you were playing or watching the game & you forgot again the time. Why did this happen? It happened because your brain was trying to derive pleasure of the project or the game you wer…

Psychological Pain - A blessing in disguise

I was asked this question couple of nights ago..Ankur, Why I am not motivated to do Self Improvement things like others are doing?

I asked him, Do you drink, he said yes. I said do you smoke.? He said yes.
I said, dear you are already miserable but not miserable enough to do something about it. you are in pain but not enough pain that you have to do some self improvement. And the pain (Psychological) is increasing every day bit by bit, its not going anywhere.

One day, the things you are doing right now will increase your pain (Psychological) to a breaking point that you will realize whatever you have been doing is not working. That day you will move onto self improvement things.

To give you an example you cannot drink liquor to the dying day of your life. At some point of time your body will say no, either your liver will go bad or something on those lines will happen. That day all the pain you have been suppressing will come up because now you cannot have the external stuf…

Difference between Believing & Knowing (Experiencing) - Ankur

When you were young your mother told you: Son, Don't put your hand in fire you will burn your hand. Assuming that she has always spoken truth to you, you  believed her. But after a while you got curious. You wanted to know what actually it feels like to burn.
So one day you went into the kitchen, put your hand in the fire & burnt it. Now this became your experience & you decided that never in your life you will put your hand in fire again. Your mother telling you was ‘believing’ & you actually burnt yourself was knowing (experiencing).

Similarly you listening to someone about Permanent love, joy, happiness which is good, but it’s just a belief for you because you have not experienced it, similar to your mother telling you that you will burn your hand. You experience so much ups & downs in your life that you think this is only what life is meant for & you fail to experience what the permanent Joy, Happiness is & you cling onto a person or thing …

Difference Between Excitement & Hapiness

Image

What is Stress (in home, office) in scientific terms?

What is Stress (in home, office) in scientific terms?  Why did you get it in first place & How do you come out of it?
If you see the definition of stress it is a force created in opposite directions on anything. Take arubber band & pull it on opposite sides. The rubber band will get under stress. Release the force & the rubber band reaches its stable state (non stressed state).

Similarly there are two forces created inside you too. One from the life which speaks through your heart called life-force which is actually what you want every time. That car that house that relationship where you say: Aha this is what I want. This force from your heart is always positive in nature and always works for your well being.

There is another force inside you which comes through brain/mind. This force is created by your external conditioning created by people & surroundings around you, both positive and negative. It’s mostly the negative that affects you which is not in sync with you…

What Women really want from a man – Cracking the code - Ankur

What Women really want from men – Cracking the code


Well this question has bothered many men including me & like most men I was clueless too for about 32 years of my life on this planet. But finally with so much messing up & seeking answers I was finally able to understand (Still there is a lot of learning to do) whats going on.
The answers doesn't lie on the surface but lies in the fundamentals of energy through which man & women were created which I will explain it to you in below post.
For a man & like most men the primary goal in the life is their “purpose in life”. If your purpose whatever that might be that you do to earn a living is going great you will be happy even if your intimacy with your girl friend or wife is going sideways.
For a women if their intimacy / love is flowing great with their partner they will be happy throughout the day. Their day will be filled with color. This is because “Flow of Love” is the primary goal of Female or Women. If th…

De-linking Desire from Happiness: A Desire is not a pre-requisite for Happiness - Ankur

De-linking Desire from Happiness – A Desire is not a pre-requisite 
for Happiness


You happiness is not dependent on your job, your relationship (boyfriend/girlfriend/Wife),
the things you own etc. A job, a person or a thing, one can inspire you more than the other but the job/person or thing 
itself will never make you happy. Every job will become monotonous, every relationship 
becomes boring & complacent, every thing loses its value (they become ordinary)
after a while when the excitement comes down. See in retrospect of your life the things you 
really wanted are just ordinary now. That's the truth of nature.