Tid Bit - Deciphering Women's Language in Dating

Men: In dating phase, If women are really interested in you then they will make time to be with you. If they are not they will make time to avoid you!

If they are avoiding you then don't ask them the reason (if you do) because its irrelevant.

Why?
Because if you ask them they will never come outright to tell you what was wrong because they don't want to hurt your feelings. That's how they are. So they let you down easily!
 
You will get Something on these lines like I am not ready to date but you have been such a great guy. (Paradox: If you were such a great guy then she would be with you!!). Meaning I am ready to date someone else but not you 😃.

Now, if they do tell you what was actually wrong, then they have already made up their mind. Nothing that you will say or do will change things at that moment. It might happen later but you will have to= basically Move on or Date someone else 

When you have started dating:

Also you will also hear some of these lines when she is not interested & wants to cancel date:

My friend's cat died.
I have to go pickup my girlfriend from airport so I wont be able to show up.
I am not able to be at this point. & we scratch our heads thinking what the hell does that mean.
She will give you some excuse that if you probe a little you will find it won't be for real.

This is the classic one:
If she says after some dates: Let's just be friends. It means slow down, you are going or pushing too fast and her emotions are not there yet for you.

So men, A date is a process and she wants to feel the full spectrum of emotions with you if she has chosen to be with you. If you skip the steps or rush the process she will reject you. That's how nature is.

So just relax, enjoy & observe them. You will get your answers!!

Karan

Inspiration: Women


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