What Women really want from a man – Cracking the code
Well
this question has bothered many men including me & like most men
I was clueless too for about 32 years of my life on this planet. But
finally with so much messing up & seeking answers I was finally
able to understand (Still there is a lot of learning to do) whats
going on.
The
answers doesn't lie on the surface but lies in the fundamentals of
energy through which man & women were created which I will
explain it to you in below post.
For
a man & like most men the primary goal in the life is their
“purpose in life”. If your purpose whatever that might be that
you do to earn a living is going great you will be happy even if your
intimacy with your girl friend or wife is going sideways.
For
a women if their intimacy / love is flowing great with their partner
they will be happy throughout the day. Their day will be filled with
color. This is because “Flow of Love” is the primary goal of
Female or Women. If the love is not flowing in their relationship
whatever they do like bury themselves in the work, distract
themselves into some chores they will still not be happy. Their core
will feel empty.
The
relationship between a man & women is governed by law of
conservation of energy. The less manly the guy is ( for example he
does not take care of his job, finances, setting dates for her
women, doing the planning and all ) the more direction oriented the
women will be in other words she will have to increase her
masculinity to compensate for her men's decreased masculinity).
Most
women do not want the decision making or power in a relationship
or show their men direction because this makes them emotionally
angular or sharp or irritates them because they want to relax in the
direction of their man where he is taking them.
So
here comes the pointers for you men: The first one:
1.
She wants to relax in her men's direction
She wants to know what your life is about. Are you driven by your
deepest purpose in life or more superficial one's. If you are driven
for a year one thing say you want to be a cook & then next year
you say want to be a pilot because there is more money in there, then
she cannot trust your masculine core because you are not clear what
you want to do with your life. If you do not know what you want to do
with your life how can she trust her life on you. Your complacency
will lead her to increase her masculine energy & since you(men)
already have naturally masculine core you both will fight like two
rams hitting each other thus separating apart.
So men find your deepest purpose in life. If you do not know, then
find it. Its one thing that will impact 99% of your things in your
life.
I
will continue more everyday with these kind of pointers which you can
apply them & see men how your life starts improving when you
start taking care of things you should.
References:
-
The way of Superior Man- By David Deida
-
My Personal Experience
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